You can learn to feel new things

Break out of old patterns, learn new skills, and upgrade your sexual and romantic connections with psychosexual and relationship therapy

Are you looking for a change?

Our closest relationships are one of the most important factors in our overall well-being, so let’s make them good ones.

Hi, I’m Siân

(she/her)

I’m a sex and relationships nerd, and I’m here to help.

You’re probably here because of a problem you’re sparring with. Whether it’s about your body not co-operating as you’d like it to, finding yourself questioning your identity, trying to connect with pleasure, or manage conflict and reconnect in your relationships, I’m on your team.

Together we can get to the root of the question you’re asking or problem that’s causing you distress. I can offer you tools and frameworks and help you build skills to break out of old patterns and find new paths.

I work to create a safe, inclusive, space where we can explore what’s really important to you, no judgement, just curiosity and support.

Thinking while feeling

When I say I’m a sex and relationship nerd, I mean that I get excited about finding, trying on and experimenting with different tools and theories to help understand our experiences. Essentially, my approach blends intellectual exploration with emotional depth. If that sounds like your thing, then come on in.

More about me
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Your queer sex therapist

As a queer and non-monogamous therapist, I have a special interest in helping folks from GSRD communities

GSRD is short for gender, sex and relationship diversity. I work with folks from all walks of life, whatever your gender, relationship style or sexual orientatation. Monogamous or polyamorous, kinky or vanilla, straight or LGBTQIA+, I’m here for you. I don’t judge, I’m pretty hard to shock, and you can relax knowing that you’re not going to have to explain the basics of gender or BDSM to me. I will still ask about what your relationship style, sexuality or gender mean to you, personally, though.

Let’s work together

I can help you with…

  • exploring your sexual identity

  • exploring your gender identity

  • sexual health issues

  • trouble with orgasm

  • vaginisimus

  • early or late ejaculation

  • unreliable erections

  • painful sex

  • mismatched desire

  • enhancing sex

  • reconnecting physically

  • connecting with pleasure

  • communication in your relationship

  • patterns of conflict

  • navigating open relationships - or monogamy

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Individual therapy

Space to work through whatever is important to you. Understand your gender or sexual identity, work on a sexual problem, or reconnect with pleasure.

From £60 per session

Individual therapy
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Relationship therapy

Whether it’s about your sexual connection, or your relationship more broadly, relationship therapy is for partners and polycules who want to work on it together.

From £90 per session

Relationship therapy
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Short term therapy

A short, focused series of sessions to work through a specific question or sexual function issue. Click to find out more, and think about whether it might work for you.

From £60 per session

Short term therapy

Email therapy

Skip the cameras and dive into what matters to you. Therapy delivered by exchanging weekly emails, for folks who don’t like phones or cameras, want more time to think, or just like to be flexible.

From £60 per session

Email therapy

Get in touch

Interested in working together? Fill out the form and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can - usually on my next working day.

My current working days are Tuesdays and Wednesdays.